The importance of discussing your wishes with loved ones
- Bryana Crossbean
- Mar 17, 2015
- 1 min read
Having essential estate planning documents such as wills, durable powers of attorney, and advance directives (living wills) is a critical step in protecting your wishes. But documents alone can only go so far.
It’s equally important to talk openly with your loved ones — and your doctor or other health care providers — about your wishes for medical care, end-of-life decisions, and who you have chosen to act as your agent under your durable power of attorney. These conversations ensure that the people who may one day make decisions on your behalf truly understand your values and preferences.
Without these discussions, there is a real risk that your wishes will not be carried out, even if they are clearly written in your documents. Misunderstandings, differing family opinions, or uncertainty about your intentions can make a difficult situation even harder for your loved ones.
If you’d like more insight on why these conversations matter, this New York Times article does a great job exploring the topic: The Trouble With Advance Directives.
By combining clear legal documents with thoughtful conversations, you give your family the guidance and confidence they’ll need to honor your wishes when it matters most.
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Your legal documents are only part of the plan — your loved ones also need to understand your wishes. We’ll help you prepare the right estate planning documents and guide you in having those important conversations with family and healthcare providers.
